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JessieBee		#81	[-]
Posts: 571 (Thu, 6 Mar, 2008 16:23) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	More bad news... you guys won't want to come in here anymore! Well, just found out that one of my best friend's tried to commit suicide last night. She's ok, her mum found her and phoned an ambulance, and I'll be seeing her tomorrow. I just don't know why she would do something like that... She doesn't get much trouble at school, a few comments like everyone gets, and she argues ith her mum quite a lot but I they get on alright the rest of the time. She gets on with her mum's boyfriend too and she loves her little brother and sister loads. The only trouble recently was an incident in Bathgate with her other friend (who neither of us like that much), when they met up with a guy her friend had been talking to on msn. Nothing bad happened, at least from what she told me. The worst was that "he" was eighteen and supplied them with alcohol and was sniffing cocaine with the other friend, who was also making out with him. The police were involved and actually turns out the "guy" was an eighteen year old girl that looked like one and liked pretending she WAS a guy... But from what my friend told me, she wasn't really involved and had been saying she wanted to go home the whole time. I don't really know how to help her...
justro		#82	[-]
Posts: 7419 (Sat, 8 Mar, 2008 08:33) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Jessie, all you can do is be there to listen to her. Don't encourage her to experiment with drugs or alchohol - just hold her hand. Listen. Give her a hug. Tell her she'd be missed if she wasn't there. She's probaby scared and feeling lonely. Teenage-hood is a rotten time; your brain is messing around with hormones, and allsorts of neural pathways. I think you're managing it pretty well, Jess. I lost a few friends during my school years, so I do sympathise. You never exactly know what is going on in someone's head or how best to help them. Big hugs.
purplebeelewings		#83	[-]
Posts: 1425 (Sat, 8 Mar, 2008 18:28) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	All you can do, as Ro says, is be there. If she really is sick then be prepared, she may throw some serious shit your way or try to drive you away. Stay with her for as long as you can. She needs people that love her right now. The best idea is not to try and figure out why, she might not even know. You can be in the best place in the world and still not be able to see it. I know too that this has probably hurt you, wondering why she would want to do that and leave everyone including you behind. Answer, she probably didn't but when you're in that place, you often think that even the people who love you the most would be better off without you around. Things will improve, but they might be slow and they might be painful. You have a right to be confused and scared and pissed off about all of it. And as for us not wanting you around, I speak for most of us I should think when I tell you nothing could be further from the truth. Be strong sweetie, and when you're not feeling strong, know that we're here to talk to. Last Edited By: purplebeelewings Sat, 8 Mar, 2008 22:15. Edited 1 times.
justro		#84	[-]
Posts: 7420 (Sat, 8 Mar, 2008 21:23) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Totally, Jess. You can bother us anytime you like. I hope you know that. Good luck with dealing with your friend. And big hugs.
Tim02		#85	[-]
Posts: 2642 (Sat, 8 Mar, 2008 22:09) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	I hope your friend gets the help she needs, Jessica.
JessieBee		#86	[-]
Posts: 572 (Sun, 23 Mar, 2008 20:41) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Hi everyone, thought I'd pop by to let you know all is well. Natasha is feeling a lot better now and seems to be back to her old self. She just told me she'd been in a bad place for a while, but was feeling a lot better about things after having a long talk with her mum. So, we've got back to texting each other everyday again (a big blow to my credit I can tell ya!) and she's coming to my house on Wednesday for my birthday to go ice skating with me, David and Fiona, and to sleep over, so that's good. She worried me there for a while! Thanks a lot everyone for your support, it means a lot, and thanks PBW for sending me a message, though I'm sorry I didn't get back to you. So now I'm just really looking forward to my birthday! We're off school for 2 weeks for the Easter holidays (woot woot!) so I'm V-E-R-Y happy and tomorrow my mum is taking me out to look at mobile phones and clothes for my birthday. I'm REALLY hoping she'll let me get a Motorola U9, even if I have to pay some money towards it! So yeah, thanks again everyone
justro		#87	[-]
Posts: 7477 (Mon, 24 Mar, 2008 07:15) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	That's a big relief, Jess - we were worried about you there. And your birthday - its the 26th? hugs
purplebeelewings		#88	[-]
Posts: 1442 (Mon, 24 Mar, 2008 15:33) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Good to see you Jessie and don't worry about it in the slightest
JessieBee		#89	[-]
Posts: 573 (Mon, 24 Mar, 2008 20:01) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Yup, the 26th. Can't wait! Unfortunately NONE of the phone stores we went into had the phone I wanted so that's pretty disappointing. I'll just have to wait till they get some back in stock
purplebeelewings		#90	[-]
Posts: 1446 (Tue, 25 Mar, 2008 10:14) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	glares threateningly at stockists
justro		#91	[-]
Posts: 7494 (Wed, 26 Mar, 2008 17:43) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	wonders how to post the dratted pictures in yuku
Ella2004		#92	[-]
Posts: 1856 (Thu, 27 Mar, 2008 11:42) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Happy belated bday, I'm really behind here thanks to Easter My bday on Saturday and on Monday I'm going to Maidstone with Mum to see if we can find something for mum and dad to get for me for my bday. I'll be 29 on the 29th which must be special somehow. I hope it's lucky. My bro might be buying me season 1 of Lost if it's not too expensive on Ebay otherwise I'm getting vouchers or money towards it. 4timesthecharm
JessieBee		#93	[-]
Posts: 577 (Sat, 20 Dec, 2008 02:46) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Um wow, so yeah... really long time no see! Anyone still around here? Doesn't look like there's been much posting going on. Well anyway, hi guys! How is everyone? I just finished my prelims, and passed them all! Woot! And today was the end of term and I'm now off for two weeks for xmas! How disappointing, no Christmas Grotto this year..
Tim02		#94	[-]
Posts: 2771 (Sat, 20 Dec, 2008 17:43) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Hi Jess, I'm still here. Yeah, this board seems to have died, but apparently they hope to revive it in 2009. Congrats on passing your prelims, I guess you're happy that's over with. I hope you have a nice Christmas, Jessica

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